I finally got to go to one of the Friday night parties. It was at a bachelor apartment with a hottub. Teak didn’t use the tub that night, but I did. Very quickly, it was clear that this was a hot hottub – more touching and caressing than tubbing. Teak stayed inside, but I noticed she had a lot of men talking with her, usually two or three at a time. I saw a few nods and then head shakes “no”, but always with a smile. On our way home, I asked her about her circle of friends. She explained that they internet were just sharing some jokes and were just “good buddies”. Things went their way. At Teak’s insistence, we installed a hottub. Soon, the parties stopped at our house too. Things seemed okay, lots of booze, some smoke, but nothing more – until the night that Teak and her boss (she was now working in a hospital laboratory as part of her studies) left the tub within minutes of each other. When I saw them again, she was in a robe that zipped up the front and the zipper was halfway to her navel. It was obvious that she was naked underneath. Blair showed up in a terrycloth robe also, also naked underneath. His was short and when he walked his cock and balls were visible. Teak was excited, animated, flirtatious, and talkative. After everyone left, she was also very aggressive, fucking me and having serveral orgasms. Still, no connection.
Over the next few months, I noticed that she would occasionally come home without her underwear – sometimes no panties, sometimes no bra. When I asked, Teak would explain it by saying that she didn’t wear them that day, which was a big change! Finally, the light bulb started to glow. Much of her conversation was about Blair and what a great person he was and the things they talked about.
Basically, you need to find a woman with a view to a long term relationship who will cheat on you and many women just won’t get it
This went on for several months, when, during a session in bed, we started to talk about fantasies. To my surprise, Teak agreed with me. I asked her if she meant it and she looked me in the eye and said “Absolutely”. I was surprised to say the least, but also incredibly excited by the conversation. I asked who she’d consider and, not surprisingly, she answered, “Blair, I’ve been fucking him for months, ever since the night at our hottub party and I want you to join us.”
And there you have it – just like that, she was a hotwife, I was a cuckold and we were swinging. And it hasn’t stopped…
Finding Your Hotwife
Finding a wife or girlfriend that is willing to become a hotwife isn’t an easy thing to achieve. Women may cheat, they may have an affair but they won’t stay with you. Why should they? If you’re already in a relationship or married then it’s even harder because your partner might not feel the same way as you and have no desire to start taking lovers. If you’re in the dark with regards to how they feel it’ll take a long process of introduction, suggestion and persuasion. Imagine just telling your wife that you want them to be unfaithful. It could be the end of your relationship there and then, especially as it may seem the reason you’re suggesting it is so you can fuck other women. Cuckold Husband wrote a great article for us – Prospecting for a Hotwife – it has some good ideas for fine-tuning your wife into hotwifery. If you’re steering towards your wife dating, beware. It can be a daunting task for women dating strange men and your wife needs to be able to feel comfortable adopting to this lifestyle. You will need to help every stage of the way, maybe even escort her on her first few dates. Although beware if you’re not married, a simple girlfriend might embrace the idea wholeheartedly only to start another relationship with the new man she sleeps with and leave you in the lurch.