No matter what you’re looking for in dating, sex is going to be a part of it somewhere along the line. Knowing how to tell if a woman is horny can play a big part in your success.
In this article, I’ll be covering a few of the most obvious signs you should be looking for. I’ll also talk briefly about what to do when you notice them. After all, there’s no point recognizing that she wants you if you aren’t going to act on it.
How to tell if a woman is horny
Some signals can be quite subtle or only apply to some women. Rather than getting into the complexities of that, we’re just going to talk about the easier ones to identify. The aim here is to have you ready to go tonight, not after six months of reading!
With this article in mind, you’re going to start noticing things you hadn’t before. It’s actually pretty exciting when you see them in action for the first time. If you are still looking for some extra guidance after you finish this article we have put together a detailed video course for meeting and attracting women you need to see.
She’s dressed to look sexy
Women know how to dress for the occasion. You can always assume that what they’re wearing was an intentional choice.
If she’s wearing something that screams sex appeal, she’s already broadcasting this to you from the moment she arrives. She wants you to look at her and immediately think about having sex with her too.
This is even more of an obvious sign if she’s usually quite conservative. Either way though, when she’s showing up to the date looking like this, you know you’re in for a fun night.
How to tell if a woman is horny — Is she overtly flirty
Given social norms and expectations, a lot of flirting tends to be quite subtle. If she’s being very obvious about it with you then she wants you to pay attention.
When you’re unsure how to tell if a woman is horny, it can be easy to convince yourself that you’re just reading into things. I can assure you if she’s being almost over the top in her flirting, it’s very deliberate.
This can be blatantly telling you that you look good. Making comments to her friends about how attractive or impressive you are or even a lip bite and ‘that look’ across the table. She wants to be sure that you’re getting the message.
Here’s a quick example from a work function I was at a few months ago. We were standing around drinking and generally chatting away and a female attractive ex-staff member joined the group.
I noticed that as people came and went from this group, she kept shuffling closer and paid close attention to me.
At one point, one of the guys made a comment about the size of my arms. I jokingly apologized and said I’ll put my coat back on for him. She immediately grabs my arm tinychats with both hands, looks at him and says “oh nooo, it’s okay. He can stay just like this” and then smiles at me.
She actively brings up the topic of sex
If sex is on her mind, it’s going to make its way into the conversation too. She wants you and wants to know if the feeling is mutual.
The easiest way to for her to gauge your interest is to talk about sex and see how you respond. If you fidget in your seat and change the subject, you’re clearly not interested right now.